When we’re confronted with the need to change, we run for cover. The mere thought of stepping outside of our comfort zone triggers a rush of insecurity and fear that leaves our emotions somewhere on the scale between mild nervousness and total panic.

As a result, most people build their lives around a familiar routine. As far as possible, they eliminate from their daily life any activities or tasks that might challenge them to do something new.

This kind of lifestyle—one based on a desire for sameness—is comfortable in the beginning. But in the long run it diminishes our innate creativity and robs us of the opportunity to be happy.

If you’ve ever taken a chemistry class, you probably remember that a catalyst is a substance that speeds up a chemical reaction. A catalyst can also allow a reaction to take place in circumstances where a reaction would otherwise be impossible (as at extremely low temperatures).

Change is the catalyst that speeds up our personal development and helps us grow when circumstances are less than favorable. That’s why even bad changes can cause good things to happen.

Don’t miss the silver lining

The Mandarin Chinese symbol for crisis is made up of two separate characters: the sign for danger followed by the sign for opportunity. Think about it: Every crisis involves an element of danger. But the danger is always accompanied by opportunity—the opportunity to find a better way to do things, a better way to live, a better way to be.

That’s why our attitude in the face of change is more important than the change itself. In the end, the only thing that can keep me from achieving my goals is me—the part of me that wants to cling to a negative attitude about things I can’t control.

Without a crisis, most people are never inspired to try something new, never motivated to achieve their full potential, never challenged to push themselves beyond what they have accomplished so far.

As long as you keep yourself open to the opportunity to go on growing and changing, you’ll find the silver lining behind every cloud.

Food for thought

Post a comment to tell us about a time when something bad happened. Now tell us about two or three positive things that happened as a result. This isn’t easy to do at first, but stick with it. Soon you’ll begin to appreciate the benefits of change even when they aren’t immediately obvious.

Keeping finances under control can be hard.

The media shower us with advertising promotions for seemingly irresistible offers like cheap and simple to arrange credit, loans, and free gifts with applications.

This does sometimes look good but things can get out of hand if there is not sufficient for everyday living costs because of luxury purchases.

Things like mortgages and car loans are unavoidable in many cases but money lenders, finance companies and retail outlets encourage us to overspend.

Credit are often simple to get hold of but can be a problem to pay off and there is always the temptation to use one to pay the other, creating a spiral of debt.

Although the advertising might say that credit is free, it always has to be paid for. It is commonplace for families to be paying out a thousand pounds a year in debt repayments and this is bound to affect their lifestyle. Many of these people also live from one day to the next without savings.

American bankruptcies for private people have actually gone up be 100% in the past decade and most of the people were employed, but high bills or pay cuts caused their financial difficulty.

In Britain the total of personal debt is around one hundred and thirty billion pounds. There is approximately three thousand pounds in credit card debt, loans and bank overdrafts for each adult living in UK.

Credit card loans have risen by 100% over a period of five years.

Getting out of debt will stop interest payments. If payments on credit cards are increased to a higher percentage per month, the interest will be lower and the debt will be paid much sooner.

Sometimes interest can be saved by changing mortgage companies and fixing interest rates for two, or three years can ensure that you know exactly what you will pay each month, so that you know how much is available to clear other debts.

It can take longer to pay off bank loans and HP agreements because there are sometimes financial fines for paying early. If this is the case, just stick to the agreed amounts per month and don’t add more debt.

There are signals to watch out for that may indicate that you are getting into debt:

• If you find yourself paying for items that you would buy with cash with a credit card.

• Agreeing to further borrowing to deal with other debts.

• If you only pay the lowest required repayment on a credit card.

• Getting red letters in the mail.

• If you have to use money you have saved to pay a bill.

• Selling life insurance policies, cashing them in.

• Having to work extra hours to pay the bills.

• Going into your bank overdraft to pay a bill.

• Only paying debts because you are being pressed to pay them.

• Getting cash advances on credit cards just to live from day to day.

The CAB offers free advice on debt in UK and when you have sorted out ways of paying off debts, saving is important too. Setting up a standing order to pay monthly to a savings account is a good idea.

Generally speaking, don’t get into debt for things that are not vital to your life on a long term basis. A state of the art computer might not be vital, but a car could be. Ask yourself if it is just because you want it, or is it essential.

Look at the things you buy without thinking about them. Buying coffee each day in a coffee shop and purchasing pre-packed sandwiches for lunch can cost a lot of money over a month.

The golden rule is to keep a tally of your spending. Check it before you get a bank statement that frightens the life out of you when it lands on your door mat.

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Reducing what you spend on fuel bills during summer is an excellent way of having a bit extra money for the family and it helps on a community level. Just a small change, or two can reduce the amount you spend on energy by up to half.

Cutting back on energy consumption need not be difficult, or cause hardship, and it need not cost you anything to do. Stopping the waste is the main thing to concentrate on. Where you do have to pay a professional to check out the efficiently of air conditioning, for example, you will generally recoup the cost in savings made from better efficiency and less wear and tear on the appliance.

1.) Keeping window covering pulled down, or across in the day time keeps out the heat of the sun.

2.) Proper, effective insulation will keep cool air inside.

3.) Using an outside grill to cook will stop the living space from heating up, but if you must cook inside make sure you have an effective vent with a hood on the cooker to send the heat outside.

4.) Microwave cooking makes less heat and uses around 50% of the electricity that you would use with an electric oven. It also takes 25% less time to cook.

5.) Do not use heat to dry dishes in a dishwasher. The air-dry function works just as well.

6.) Air conditioners should be checked each year and fitted with new filters. A thermostatic control that can be programmed to control the temperature inside save electricity and so does switching off air conditioning units when everyone is out.

7.) Where possible wash laundry in cold water and this will save approximately eight five percent of the electricity used in washing.

8.) Using electric appliances for washing dishes and laundry after seven in the evening, when the cost of electricity is lower in many places, further reduces bills.

9.) Switching to the fast cycle to spin clothes in the washing machine takes out more water, so you do not need to use your clothes dryer for so long.

10.) Changing over to fluorescent lights can say 33% of the electricity you currently use on lighting with standard bulbs.

It is important to bear in mind that electrical equipment in the house uses around twenty percent of your total electricity for the year. There are refrigerators on the market that could save you up to seventy dollars per year, just by being more efficient. Over the life time of the appliance, this could add up to more than a thousand dollars in savings.

Make sure that those around are aware of these ways of reducing fuel costs and make the savings part of your life.

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Sticking to a tight budget can be difficult. You have to do all the grunt work associated with setting one up. You have to organize all your information and have your spreadsheets and accounting software up and ready to go. Applying your plan of action can take a lot of will power that, let’s face it, we would rather not bother. The truth is, it isn’t going to take care of itself and if you are trying to work towards something, like a vacation, you have to work at it to make it happen. How do you keep your budget on track avoid pushing it to the back of your mind?

Below I have compiled some tips to help you reach your budget goals. I hope they help!

• Start out small and build on that. If you set your goals too high to begin with, you will find that you don’t stick to any of them and your budget will fail. Start with cutting back on eating lunches outside home during the week. Give yourself one day a week to be able to go out to lunch with a friend from work and for the other days, pack a lunch. This is a good start. If you are trying to eliminate eating out altogether, go easy on yourself. Pick one night that you and your family can enjoy a night out at a restaurant but make sure you cook meals at home for the rest of the week. By setting limits but allowing some luxury, you will find it easier to stay within your budget.
• Make sure to leave some room for out of the ordinary expenses. Take into account expenses that occur yearly too. These don’t happen all the time, but need to be factored in to your budget or you will be quite off when these happen. Sit down and make a list of all of the “maybe” expenses. Factor all into your budget. If they don’t all happen during the year, then that is more money set aside that you have saved.
• List your budget down and make your budget permanent. It is easy to go off track if it is not written down. Don’t leave it all to memory. With all the frustrations and comings and goings of our daily lives, things get overlooked. Don’t leave it to chance. Take action in writing.
• Don’t be too hard on yourself. Not meeting your budget once in a while is a given event. Getting back on track is the key. If you give up completely, all your hard work will go right down the drain and then you will be back at starting point without a goal. It is going to take work to get what you want. You know the saying: “anything worth wanting, you must work for”. This is true when setting your budget. If you have a bad month, take it in stride and move on to the next month. Look into the future and move on.
• Your budget is a work in process. Some adjustments may need to be made here and there. This is normal. When you notice that you can save more in an area, apply it to your budget. If you notice that one area seems to take up more than another, modify it to so it can be corrected. Whatever you do, don’t get discouraged and give up. Modifications will help you to meet your goals. Work with your budget, not against it.
• Make an appointment once a month to sit down and look over your budget. Keep this appointment each and every month. This will show you how close you are to being on budget or where modifications need to be made. Just make sure you don’t modify things too much to include frivolities. The modification should be for unforeseen expenses. If you do not look over your budget once a month, you might as well not have one. If you don’t take the time to look over it, you won’t take the time to stick to it either.
• Set goals that are realistic. Don’t expect to tackle a credit card that you owe $20,000 overnight. It would not be realistic to say you will have it paid off in a couple of years. That would be way too hard to do. If you set goals out of reach, you are setting yourself up for extreme disappointment and failure. You have to be realistic and work at a pace that is right for you. If you could pay off $20,000 in a couple of years, you wouldn’t need a budget. You would have plenty of money to where you wouldn’t owe that amount to begin with.
• Treat yourself to a reward once in a while. This way you can look forward to staying on budget. Don’t reward yourself with anything extravagant as this would break your budget. Rewards will make you feel you have done a good job and help you see what you have accomplished. This is important if you are going to stick to your budget.
• Make sure you leave room for your investments. Your retirement is important and you must plan for it. Don’t put this on the back burner and think you have plenty of time for it once you get everything else taken care of. The time to plan is now and you must do this above all else. Make sure you leave the room for your retirement fund. Don’t pull the strings too tightly here. You have to have the money to live on once you retire. A budget now with no retirement account will not do you any good in the long run. You can make both of these work.
• Look at your budget as a happy thing. Think of what you will have at the end. Don’t keep thinking of all the restrictions you have put upon yourself and your finances. Think of the benefits. You must think positively throughout this process. If you do not think this way, you up your chances for failure. Just like a lot of people fail on a diet because they restrict themselves too much, this too can happen on a budget.

Following the above mentioned tips can help you stay on track and to reach the success you are after. Just remember, if you have a bad month, don’t give up. Be positive and tell yourself that next month will be better. Good luck and happy budgeting!

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A family’s grocery bill is usually higher than the rest of the family’s budget. Since every single family is unique, there is a huge variation in terms of a family’s preferences on what kind of brand name and how much fruits, meats and vegetables they buy in their groceries.

But the good thing is that we can still save more on groceries by being penny-wise buyers without compromising our shopping lists. Here’s a few simple and efficient ways on how to save a few bucks.

1.) Create a weekly menu plan. It will help you to get what you just need before hitting the grocery stores.
2.) Pay attention for special offers and coupons in stores and include them in your meal plan.
3.) Prepare a shopping list and do not buy any unnecessary item that is not on the list.
4.) Don’t shop when you feel like eating. This will just entice you to buy needless stuff.
5.) Shop by yourself. When a family member is with you, for sure there will be an increase in your grocery bill.
6.) Buy things that are essentially needed. For instance, if a member of your family doesn’t like to eat spinach then there is no need to buy spinach.
7.) Maintain your focus on groceries on lower shelves where the prices are lesser.
8.) Pay money for store brands with the same quality. More often than not, the product is just the same, just in a different container.

It’s very simple to be penny-wise. In time, you’ll appreciate a good deal of money being saved when you’re getting by with these simple steps. File a record of your grocery bills, and you will be able to observe a huge change in the grocery savings you are making.

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Families are finding themselves in a bit of a crisis with their financial circumstances. This is not only caused by the cost of living increasing, but also with our busy hectic days at work. The free moments are spent trying to relax and be with our family in the evenings, and as a result, budgeting usually gets placed on the back burner and is more often than not, forgotten. It is a really good idea to put some time aside to bring those finances back to the front burner and review your expenses. There are a lot of simple things you can do to improve your finances and you may not really notice that you are eventually cutting back.

Budgeting on Food

One big area that puts a huge dent in your finances is the budget for food. On the average, a family will spend an estimated $2434.00 per annum just eating out. Usually, a family of four buys lunch away from home every day during the week: with the children eating in the lunchroom and spouses dining out during lunch hours. Imagine, if just one of the four of you were to pack a lunch one day a week, you would save an estimated $400.00 a year! That adds up to a lot if your whole family would pack lunch even just once in a week. Can you imagine the savings if this is done more than once? You could go on that wonderful vacation you had been wanting and not even have to miss out on other luxuries while saving!

Home Financing

Checking into refinancing your home could save you a lot of money too. You could find a better interest rate or be able to shorten your mortgage length. If refinancing is not right for you, paying just a bit more a month towards your mortgage can really add up and save you quite a bit on interest in the long run. Taking a glance at your utilities is a good idea too. Weather stripping your home or adding solar paneling to your windows could put a dent in your electric bill. Making sure you stay on top of the basic upkeep on your home can have an effect on your utilities. Ensuring that sinks don’t drip and toilets don’t run is a good thing to check. Installing a thermostat with a timer could help you also as you can set it to a higher temp while your family is not at home.

Transportation Budget

The rising cost of transportation really puts its mark on our finances. The price of fuel has really sky rocketed the last couple of years. There are many things you could take into consideration to try to cut your transportation costs. Below are just a few to consider:

• Carpooling: This is an option that not everyone finds ideal. Driving to work with your spouse once in a while might be a viable option that could save a bit of gas and mileage on your other vehicle.
• Combine Errands: If you can combine a lot of your errands, do so. This way you are not making so many trips to town, you can save loads on gas, not to mention save your available time and spend it with your family.
• Keep An Eye For Specials On Gas: Some convenient stores for example will offer $ 0.05 off the fuel price per liter on Tuesdays if you pay by credit card or fill up your tank completely. Taking advantage of these deals is an easy way to save a little bit. Remember, saving a little bit now will add up later.
• Maintenance Schedule Of Vehicles: The upkeep of your vehicles is very important. Regular oil changes and filter changes helps on gas mileage along with making sure your tire pressure and tread are correct.

Banking Issues

Making sure that you are with a bank that offers you a free checking account or low cost checking with free bill pay can save also. Paying bills this way will also save you on time, envelopes, checks and stamps. If you prefer an interest yielding checking account over a free checking, make sure that the fees do not outweigh the interest you will get.

Credit Card Issues

Go through your credit cards. Try to transfer outstanding balances to low interest cards. You can save a lot by cancelling high interest cards or cards that charge annual fees. It is in your best interest to always pay your balances in full every month, but if this is not a possibility, make sure you have a card with the lowest interest rate available to you.

HealthCare Finances

Let’s face it. A huge cost and worry in any family is healthcare. A lot of times you cannot cut costs in this area but you can look out and take advantage of special offers available to you. Your place of employment might offer a flexible spending account. This would give you the ability to place money into this account tax free to spend on your medical costs. This would include prescription and over the counter drugs, along with dental and vision care. A lot of pharmacies now offer a prescription savings plan where if it is allowed by your physician, you could save by getting generics.

Insurance Policies

Another place to review is your insurance policy for you and your family. Comparing rates on your home, car and life insurance could save you money. A lot of companies offer incentives to switch to them. You can receive bonus discounts through some companies if you have your home and car insurance through them. Make sure that you give your current company the opportunity to provide you with a better rate in order to keep you. A lot of times they will give you a special rate for being a loyal customer and being with their company for so long too.


Budget on Communication

Believe it or not, a big chunk of your money goes out to the cost of communications in your household. Between home phones, cell phones, internet usage, and cable or satellite TV. Sit down with your family and discuss your needs for these items. A lot of cell phone companies offer family plans that can save you money and free long distance. This would save you money by using your cell phones to stay in touch with friends and family out of state than by using your home phone. It might also be an option to get your home phone, cell phones, cable TV, and internet through the same provider. They offer big discounts to customers who use them for all their needs.

Budget on Shopping

When shopping around to save money on your expenses, you must be assertive. Don’t waiver or be shy when talking with companies. They are there to offer you a service or a product and you are or could be a customer of theirs. You have the right to ask questions and get the answers you are after. Searching on the internet can save you time and help you find great deals. Take advantage of this. It will be worth your while. You may also find that you can get coupons for things you buy everyday online. This can help you save too. Without looking online, you would not get this perk as this is only for their online customers.
A lot of the areas we have just covered would not alter your lifestyle very much at all and would be easy to take care of. The benefits of altering some of these items can really add up. Being able to put money aside for the future of your family will also give you a great sense of stability in your daily lives.

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